convenience always comes at a cost, as i know you understand.
one suggestion for the 'cost' of monero's privacy conxenience is gresham's law in reverse. yea you can hold the hardest money that will displace all others and swap to monero for private transactions (i personally think this is rather great and wallets like StackDuo are nice), but now you're starting to move away from the simple '1step' sidewalk meme you posted - stepping away from convenience...
and once you're doing that you might as well consider cashu and see where that nets out in the tradeoffs between privacy/custody/money-hardness.
the disclaimer here is that i am a fan of monero. but the tradeoffs are not as simple as you claim.





