It’s funny when you talk to other NICU families. Without even sharing much, you just know. That’s an experience that has to be experienced to understand. Life really does come to a stop, and you live life moment to moment in a way you may never experience again, I call it “when life is happening to you, and your helpless to effect it”. I’m glad to meet a fellow NICU alum. It’s not something I ever really talk about 20 years later…but that one summer in 2003 the world stopped, for a few weeks, and became very simple. I know you get it, and am so glad both your twins made it. Cheers to you all.