The best thing you can do for yourself and your kids is to go out of your way to find situations and people that will tell you honest and tough feedback.

If you do not, you end up promoting things like DEI. And you advertise to the world something so obvious which is completely oblivious to you. You’re positively reinforced that you cannot be incorrect about anything because you’ve surrounded yourself with sycophants that don’t challenge you to think for yourself.

In other words you don’t have any real friends.