Absolutely understandable. Your perception of your circumstance is astute. I was hoping my children would carefully consider their choices, the verdict is out. I didn’t see my life this way in my youth, my expectation is that they won’t either, but as a parent you have to try. I had a ADHD girlfriend (from Norway lol) she is a journalist, with effort I could keep track of the six different conversations spoken in no particular order when her Adderall wore off, helped with her rough drafts, she speaks seven languages fluently though and as a global journalist that ability to absorb bits of information at an enormous rate proved a superpower. For her it was management and seeking the right niche for her characteristics.