I keep running into roadblocks with them, but I’ll have another go
Have you checked out #AlbyHub? They have a friends and family feature that’s really good for this use case.
https://blog.getalby.com/provide-easy-to-use-wallets-to-friends-and-family-with-alby-hub/
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If you want to experiment/test without having to deal with Lightning channels. Try setting it up with a Cashu backend. 🥜
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