I haven't seen those types of comments.
I like the existence of zaps & that it is getting Bitcoiners to use their bitcoin as a MoE. I've been a little surprised at how many haven't made that step yet. It takes a little effort to make that leap & I'm glad it's providing an incentive to do so. It made me explore other ways to acquire non kyc sats.
At the end of the day nobody can force you to zap & only your client can stop you from liking notes. If your client removes that ability from you, you can always change clients.
