Yea I usually recommend getalby or wallet of satoshi for receiving on Nostr because they have lightning addresses. Then recommend Phoenix wallet as a more self sovereign wallet you actually control the keys and funds. Anytime getalby or wallet of satoshi accumulates too many satoshis move them over to Phoenix. I understand though this is a lot for someone new and I hope that by the end of the year there are better lightning wallets with lightning addresses. Enjoy the rest of your Sunday!