22 is still so young, you a baby hon! I've long since been supporting myself, but sometimes I wonder if that's been a impediment in me finding love. Dudes sometimes get intimidated.

I hope you're still open minded to love even as you're still working on yourself. Life is a journey and it's easier with a partner who has your back and wants to help you grow. Don't ignore the pretty young things that are batting their eyes at you 😘

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Surprisingly, I don't get that while focusing on myself. Maybe it's because of an autism impediment where I don't get hints from the ladies.

Who knows, though?

I bet you have some interest that you don't even notice. I feel like I've spent half my life flirting with autistic men to no avail. I know so much about trains and public transit as a result 🤣

So the hint I'd give you is, if anyone around you is asking about your special interest then they're probably interested in more than just your special interest.

It can be annoying because it's all subtle communication, but sometimes just directly ask, "maybe I'm getting the wrong vibe but, are you flirting with me?"

Any answer other than a direct no is a yes. "What?! You think I was flirting with you? 🫦" = Yes I am obvs flirting with you.

Here's hoping we can all get laid! 🥂

I talk about my special interest (primarily FLOSS and alt-tech for gaming and music production) on two YouTube channels (I have a third for a Reddit storytelling deal I'm trying out as well).

I might have been too smart for normies. :p

Maybe you are too smart for normies, maybe so maybe so. But never think there's not a lady out there whos also feeling like she's too smart for normies. You'll find your person hon 💖