Unfortunately, I don't know any men with toys and the fun side of men is online. But I also get why men wouldn't say it in real life.
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True. I'm much more adventurous online, though I am working on changing that. I still haven't worked up the courage to ask to eat someone's pussy as a first date. But, I bet more men have toys than you think. And you can always ask, or suggest picking some out for him.
Well, I want to have my ass eaten as a first date. 😁
Regarding the toys, I don't want to make someone buy toys for himself just because he likes me, I want him to be a genuine pervert. And I am very open about mine, after maximum 5 drinks I tell everything and I am ready for a show.
But do you say that it really turns you on to see guys play with toys? If not, ilthere might be a guy who you already know, and who has toys, but hasn't mentioned it to you because he doesn't think you're into it.