You're right. It's not too hard to find relays that are selective in some sense, but there's a lot of content overlap.
I guess the issue is the concept of topic-based relays and the concept of multiple redundant relays are sort of at odds. For me, I could wave bye-bye to the multiple redundant aspect, it doesn't seem to scale in practice anyway.
If the relay network then just became one big magazine stand, I'd be up for it. I think.