We were lied to when we were told that with true love everything is 50/50. Life is crazy. My husband used to do a lot of the grunt work around here because it was easier for him and he has no patience for laundry of dishes. Then he got hurt. Now I carry in the big dog food bags and even had to kill a rat. Sometimes it’s 80/20 and one partner has to carry the team for a while. We worship each other and don’t take keep score.