nostr:npub1n4kc4re0enczkhnfslv8vtvqw0e68t3wfka74s0yef38j3h6ys8s40x2dq I don't think I'm qualified to answer this at all because I've never actually gone out IRL in pursuit of a relationship. :blobshh:
I find it easier myself because I can be way more confident over text and bios make it so I'm not talking to a complete unknown.