The easiest choise is Core 29, if you're not onboard with knots, and don't have a use case for a larger op return.
Since I understand datacarriersize is essentially depricated now.
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I agree
However
You will not able to host a self-custodial lightning node with people running v30
I don’t anyways but it’s a major issue for lightning
To be honest I haven't really heard this said before. Maybe cause I'm not following intently.
I suppose it's only a risk. That transactions are not caught by the lightning instance because bitcoind filtered it out.
My mempool was often full when the network was busy, and I felt comfortable enough relying on the CSV. I guess it would be the same now, that I would only know after confirmation.
Lightning is also not Bitcoin so if it has to go for a while, so be it
This is as far as my knowledge has taken me
Lots of bad and hyperbolic actors