Today we celebrated the halving, I mean, our anniversary, with dinner at our favourite Japanese restaurant.

We included our daughter - after all, it's kind of like a birthday for our family.

My own parents always expected my brother and I to make a "big deal" of THEIR anniversary - God forbid we'd forget to call to congratulate.

But now I truly understand; it's not just about them and their relationship, as my brother and I thought... It's the anniversary of when the family formed, which the kids are obviously a part of.

I get it now. I don't know why it only hit me this year.