Subnostr

It sucks to end up alone in your 40s after you signed up for "til death do us part." It's hard to even imagine who you'd want to meet when you're a socially awkward contrarian who is only into fringe things. Dating apps are a nightmare. I made a profile on one yesterday and already deleted it today. That's not how I'd want to meet someone.

Sorry, I'm just venting. It's lonely here on my planet sometimes and it's a total catch-22 because I'm extremely unhappy, which would possibly be improved by having someone to spend time with, but I also feel like it's not fair to even try to bring someone into the mess until I can sort it out a bit more.

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nybe 2y ago

Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is regroup for a time in your own fortress of solitude… https://youtu.be/1om34yUliak

MattA 2y ago

my personal montra has long been:

“you can’t expect anyone to love you until you love yourself.”

It sounds cliché, but the best thing I did for myself was hit the weights in the gym regularly.

Not only will ya look better, but moving heavy weights will activate your testosterone production, you’ll mood will brighten & you’ll feel more self confident.

Hardest part is getting started… but you can do it! #LFG!

CTarian 2y ago

Stop overthinking everything. There are infinite possible outcomes per quantum mechanics.. Forget about analyzing. Just do..... Just do...