easy to remedy the "helpers" - mostly, you have to start paying attention to my written content and not the vibes. today 👆🏻 was my real father. i have explained that before. my parents have been divorced for 37 years, both are remarried, but tag me (as a man) to talk to each other (reverse genders, sometimes). it's toxic as fuck. which is how you (and the others) ended up in the rotation via comms, talking to my mom, thinking it's me, but your comms ended up in MY feed. which is why - gestures broadly. anyway, i can fix it. but you have to pay attention to me and stop sipping the pool water.... i know what happened, they don't. it doesn't matter. they're not sorry.