Go to your profile and look at a note and under your name should be the list of relays that note broadcasted too
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thank you for pointing me in the right direction. I see little icons under my name in the note. How would I quickly identify if its being broadcast to my own relay? Do I have to click on each icon and verify the address?
https://nostr-event-checker.vercel.app/ I think you can check here.. but yes thats a way you can check as well be clicking each icon
great tool but it seems to only show wss and im thinking it wont show my private relay which starts with ws
ok in the relay list on amethyst there is a column with a sync icon, if there is a number 1 there, there was an error. then up and down arrows for data transfer. if that is populated then its working. The problem was one of my mobile devices was connected to my guest network and not to the same network as my umbrel nostr relay.