True change begins when you forgive the people who did you wrong, and thank them for the lessons they taught you.
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Unresolved bitterness & anger eats away at you like a cancer.
Your holding it has little impact on them but it's slowly killing you.
Release them & yourself from this bondage. When you can unconditionally love your enemy as a limited human, you know you are winning.
It also doesn't mean you should to trust them again.
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Aho
I get what you mean but its not the easiest thing to do.
Did you forgive everyone?
Yes. I’ve learned that everyone is on their own journey in life. Nothing they’ve done has ever been personal to me. Instead, they are acting out of their own wounding and traumas. Many people I never want to deal with again and I’ve placed a boundary, but in my heart I have forgiven them, because I understand they are just hurt deep down.
Ultimately, they came into my life to teach me about myself, and for that lesson, I am thankful.