yeah, i don't use amethyst, because right now i literally couldn't enter my nsec into it to log in, so i have plebstr on my phone instead
(yes i am not new to this cryptography thing ffs, i tried everything, and frankly i hate it and hearing what nostr:nprofile1qythwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnswf5k6ctv9ehx2ap0qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyv9kh2uewd9hj7qgewaehxw309aex2mrp0yh8xmn0wf6zuum0vd5kzmp0qqsz7543nls5prmfac8fp8kcljkp8rzlxuxqth3y7rvrwzk6096jxgc34ad9e says about porn magically appearing on her feed tells me something)
there's quite a few prominent folk in this community who think things like not letting users properly filter their feed, or forcing them to accept this way or that, or making them upgrade when there's no real need to, are ok, a lot of toxic dev behaviors that i have come to loathe and despise in the wider IT community that are here
the point of mentioning that is that clients are part of the equation, and clients can impose a certain opinion on its users, and other clients are less opinionated, and don't force so many things or make so many assumptions
the same goes for relays, and some relays have more options, others have some strong opinions either way, and some are more neutral
so far i'm most happy with coracle.social and primal.net and as far as devs go, @hodlbod is the only one i know or interact with a lot, and nostr:nprofile1qy08wumn8ghj7mn0wd68yttsw43zuam9d3kx7unyv4ezumn9wshsz8mhwden5te0dehhxarj94ex2mrp0yhxummtda6xzun09e3k7mf0qythwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnwdaehgu3wvfskuep0qqswuyd9ml6qcxd92h6pleptfrcqucvvjy39vg4wx7mv9wm8kakyujgw3tmmj seems to be a pretty solid guy and i'd use his client except it isn't suited to my dev work