if it was hella important only your love object can get that
so, she made a big mistake, and i'm not imputing intent, it's actually a little picture of how miserable software development is these days that this kind of "tell everyone function" is COERCIVE
it happens, don't expect to be given praise for missing something
this is how it is in software, if your code isn't exact, and fails to do what people expect, pile-in
it's rough, you need the motivation to prove you are better, don't take that away from her
