Let’s be honest there are some women and people in general who have some honestly batshit ideas of what’s necessary in a partner. I’ve had Jabba the hut looking guys who are underemployed, reek of cigarettes, dribbling Mountain Dew down their rolls, probably couldn’t find their dick if their life depended on it, sitting outside a country gas station telling me I’m not pretty enough to date and how it’s sad I’m so old in my 30’s and going home alone to my cat. These same dudes think they deserve a Cindy Crawford type.

Yes there is a weird percentage of women surprisingly hung up on the 6 ft height rule. Which I’ve always found odd because I’m 5’11 and never been hung up on height. While I’ve met 5’2 women who refuse to match with someone under 6 ft. Does not compute to me.

I do think online dating does lend itself more to “elimi-dating” so you get hung up on things that might not really be an issue just to narrow down to a reasonable sample size. At the end of the day you just have to show up as your best self. Know what you’re looking for and not get too demoralized on the search for it.

Let’s be honest there are some women and people in general who have some honestly batshit ideas of what’s necessary in a partner. I’ve had Jabba the hut looking guys who are underemployed, reek of cigarettes, dribbling Mountain Dew down their rolls, probably couldn’t find their dick if their life depended on it, sitting outside a country gas station telling me I’m not pretty enough to date and how it’s sad I’m so old in my 30’s and going home alone to my cat. These same dudes think they deserve a Cindy Crawford type.

Yes there is a weird percentage of women surprisingly hung up on the 6 ft height rule. Which I’ve always found odd because I’m 5’11 and never been hung up on height. While I’ve met 5’2 women who refuse to match with someone under 6 ft. Does not compute to me.

I do think online dating does lend itself more to “elimi-dating” so you get hung up on things that might not really be an issue just to narrow down to a reasonable sample size. At the end of the day you just have to show up as your best self. Know what you’re looking for and not get too demoralized on the search for it.

Let’s be honest there are some women and people in general who have some honestly batshit ideas of what’s necessary in a partner. I’ve had Jabba the hut looking guys who are underemployed, reek of cigarettes, dribbling Mountain Dew down their rolls, probably couldn’t find their dick if their life depended on it, sitting outside a country gas station telling me I’m not pretty enough to date and how it’s sad I’m so old in my 30’s and going home alone to my cat. These same dudes think they deserve a Cindy Crawford type.

Yes there is a weird percentage of women surprisingly hung up on the 6 ft height rule. Which I’ve always found odd because I’m 5’11 and never been hung up on height. While I’ve met 5’2 women who refuse to match with someone under 6 ft. Does not compute to me.

I do think online dating does lend itself more to “elimi-dating” so you get hung up on things that might not really be an issue just to narrow down to a reasonable sample size. At the end of the day you just have to show up as your best self. Know what you’re looking for and not get too demoralized on the search for it.

Let’s be honest there are some women and people in general who have some honestly batshit ideas of what’s necessary in a partner. I’ve had Jabba the hut looking guys who are underemployed, reek of cigarettes, dribbling Mountain Dew down their rolls, probably couldn’t find their dick if their life depended on it, sitting outside a country gas station telling me I’m not pretty enough to date and how it’s sad I’m so old in my 30’s and going home alone to my cat. These same dudes think they deserve a Cindy Crawford type.

Yes there is a weird percentage of women surprisingly hung up on the 6 ft height rule. Which I’ve always found odd because I’m 5’11 and never been hung up on height. While I’ve met 5’2 women who refuse to match with someone under 6 ft. Does not compute to me.

I do think online dating does lend itself more to “elimi-dating” so you get hung up on things that might not really be an issue just to narrow down to a reasonable sample size. At the end of the day you just have to show up as your best self. Know what you’re looking for and not get too demoralized on the search for it.

Let’s be honest there are some women and people in general who have some honestly batshit ideas of what’s necessary in a partner. I’ve had Jabba the hut looking guys who are underemployed, reek of cigarettes, dribbling Mountain Dew down their rolls, probably couldn’t find their dick if their life depended on it, sitting outside a country gas station telling me I’m not pretty enough to date and how it’s sad I’m so old in my 30’s and going home alone to my cat. These same dudes think they deserve a Cindy Crawford type.

Yes there is a weird percentage of women surprisingly hung up on the 6 ft height rule. Which I’ve always found odd because I’m 5’11 and never been hung up on height. While I’ve met 5’2 women who refuse to match with someone under 6 ft. Does not compute to me.

I do think online dating does lend itself more to “elimi-dating” so you get hung up on things that might not really be an issue just to narrow down to a reasonable sample size. At the end of the day you just have to show up as your best self. Know what you’re looking for and not get too demoralized on the search for it.

Tbh… woman being empowered to have their own careers actually enables men with different qualities to be desirable. I think this will take some time to fully be reflected in societal expectations… but men don’t have to have their core value be defined by so significantly based on how much they earn. That is something that both partners are able to offer each other in moderation. I think this transition is confusing on both sides - men are trying to be attractive using an out of date playbook and women are having to also deal with the struggles of the gap between what they actually want vs what society says they should want.