Yes but I wouldn't say they're fucked in the head. Inexperienced men that fall in love and marry are doomed from the start. Men are sold the white knight story from a very early age, at least I was. The idea that being a good guy is a noble pursuit.

Just trying to warn/inform men and potentially women with what I'm saying. Though the warning will most likely fall on deaf ears, I would have also disregarded everything I just said just a few years ago.