Yep. This is very true. So many variables. Generalizations are not always helpful. I do my best to help people who are struggling with narcissists. I'm open to the feedback and different perspectives.
I will also continue to use generalizations in ways that are helpful for people who are struggling.
Even when the narcissist is right, it doesn't excuse their abuse, which is one of the ways they gaslight other people.
"I was right, so it justifies my abuse."
Being right is one thing, but abuse is an entire different issue. Most of what I talk about is the abuse and healing from it.
Until we address the abuse, it doesn't matter what else is right or not.