Agreed. My point isn't to equate age with experience. There are plenty of self-absorbed old men with the maturity of toddlers “ruling the world” out there.

Personally, I measure experience by patience, kindness, listening for the sake of listening, and a willingness to put yourself in other people’s shoes. It also shows in a more careful approach, less certainty, more appreciation for others regardless of their views or opinions, and a shift away from the urge to belong or impress.

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True but I'd say hardship is the equaliser. Most of the skills you mentioned above can only be learnt through real hardship and challenges experiences.

I'd also say it's impossible to transition fully from a boy to a man without becoming a father. Anything before that is just playtime.