Just ran relaywizard on a fresh server after hooking up the domain, it took 20s and boom, now there is a invite only relay available at https://relay.node-tec.com. There's no excuse not to spin up a relay at this point if you're capable of starting up a server and with NIP-29 around the corner you'll probably want one.

I'm going to work on some management tools next, if you're interested in helping out the code is all open source: https://github.com/nodetec/relaywizard

And if you need to brush up on some of these topics checkout: https://relayrunner.org