Women like bad men because they want a man who protect them, so they try to choose strong men. Bad men look strong, and in reality, most bad men are really strong. The only problem is that many bad men are violent and this violence may also include their women.
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Bad men are also often terrible fathers.
And they spend the milk money on blackjack and OnlyFans.
Fatherhood is where my mind went when seeing your original post and the responses. This is all downstream of father hunger.
Daddy issues