I'm not sure we talking about the same here, but if a woman looks up to me with an attitude of "I want to be like you" I simply replied "but I want you to be you" ... Why would I want to be with a woman that tries to be like me? How boring and selfish is that?
Does that make sense for you? I've seen some trends about extremely submissive women, which I guess might be a childish counter to the extreme modern feminism. Does your point of view have something to do with that?