Got hit on in the lift. I might have awkward rizz, but at least I don’t have scary rizz 😭 felt trapped. He did smell lovely though, so there’s that
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how did that happen? 🤔
How did a guy find me attractive? 😂 or how did he flirt?
LOL, I asked because something got lost in translation in my mind 🤣, I took it literally😅.
Cant blame him tbh 👀, thoug now that I think about it, an elevator is a tricky place for that but I did met girls on the train once or twice 🤔
Ohhhhh 🤣😂🤣😂🤣🫂 it’s cool though, made me laugh reading it 😂🫂 I thought bloody hell, this guys charming
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Trains are cool 🙏🏽 romantic even
Enjoy it, while it lasts.
I get hit on so rarely, IRL, that I practically call out a national holiday. That's not even age; always been like that.
I guess that's why I learned to code, quickly gave up on my appearance, and developed a sardonic personality.
Literally me
😂🤣🫂
You say this, but you could secretly have grown up as a Rizzmaster and you’re just saying this to throw us off 🫂
Ha ha. Nah. I totally reek of dork or something.
That said, the caliber of man who hits on me tends to be really high, so I guess I'm winning on quality over quantity. 😁
Quality > quantity 🫂❤️🔥💯
Same 🫂
Can be fun - depending on guy and place. But I prefer flirting with a boyfriend, way more fun
in the lift? Did he press the stop button and start a conversation? 🤣 that would be pretty scary, haha
Nah 😂 he just stood real close and I was in the corner. Tall building 👀 lots of floors to travel
A man might not understand that being in the lift makes a difference because women seem to feel trapped by the need to choose a response every time they get hit on anywhere at all
Alone in confined spaces are not ideal in most situations with strangers - and sometimes family. The approach is also key. Standing too close, saying I’m beautiful and asking me what my name is and if I’m married when I have headphones on and am clearly not paying attention to him makes me defensive, even if he meant well. Asking me how my day is going, what I’m listening to and maybe some light banter is great. If she banters back, that’s a green light she mighhht be interested. Before saying goodbye ask for names/numbers cos you enjoyed talking and would love to do it again sometime ‘in a less confined space’, though you enjoyed the elevator music - gesture towards her headphones. Little lame joke to show you know it might not be ideal. If they say no, it’s fine cos you’re leaving now anyway. Still not ideal in a lift, but they will feel less on edge.
Just what I would do, if I was a gentleman👆
Nostr has advice like this on it now, we really made it
