May you always learn. Truly.

My exes have been good humans. When my children’s father & I divorced we were so close in income that he was ordered to pay $86 a month for three kids or something crazy 🤪

We kept it that way for three years or something then went to court to drop

him paying completely. He offered to pay me alimony but me being stubbornly independent told him: …

Well I refused.

Either way, we raised our littles as co-parents & covered one another both financially & otherwise for the sake of our children. We weren’t great spouses but looking back fantastic co-parents. Happy about that now.

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That's the best of a bad situation.

Coparenting is a much more complex situation that I have no experience with so congratulations, sincerely 🫂