I just saw the perfect kiss on the beach. I can see this guy is good. It was not short, not too long, left them both wanting more.

Here I am creeping on people kissing, but they are right in front of me. But that's the trick. It's so well done that it's an art form.

People think they are good kissers whether they are or not is a different story.

If you have have to be told to put your tongue back in, consider going back to square one. I'm probably a bad kisser by this point so I'm in this boat too, but I can aspire to kissing greatness.

Someone's opinion was that porn causes guys to think they can just open their mouths wide from the get-go.

I think it should be a whole conversation. Shy at first, and if the initial encounters go well, maybe your tongue invites someone else's over for a few seconds, or waits til they do the same. Future visits can be longer.

There are no rules, but don't overstay welcomes, don't rush. It's a whole conversation. Abrupt jokes. some replies are long, some are short.

Absolutely don't let your tongue barge through.

My 98 year great aunt said "I don't agree with guys trying out gals before marriage. But if they are really good and deserve a kiss..."

So all this sex on the first date should just be replaced with kissing. There's no harm in trying out a kiss. And practicing kissing for months as one gets to know someone

I think you can learn everything about how someone is in bed by how they kiss.

More kissing.