Just wanted to get something off my chest, observing recent youngsters. There is no ME in the family, family always comes first, especially if you have kids. Stop being a self centered little whiny person. It is hard, it will suck, you’ll hate it many times, your pride will be crushed, you will suffer, we know! You’ll make it through and you will be 100 times better in the end. Just hang in there, reevaluate your situation, and adopt the best you can! All families are dysfunctional and have their issues, social media is not the bar you should or can target, it’s unrealistic at best! 🐶🐾🫡🫂🫂🫂