That’s a bit harsh. I look upon them as basically victims of psychological abuse. I don’t think it’s pure genetics.

Everyone likes to be told they deserve more. There used to be more positive peer pressure from mostly groups of older women that could spot this type of counter productive hypergamic fantasizing. Think elder family members or women from church.

I think we collectively underestimate the power and extent to which women impose peer pressure on each other vs “patriarchal” forces. Ive met tons of women that gave zero fucks about what their dad said or even actively defied him. I’ve never met one bitch that liked other women gossiping about them. Few.

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The peer pressure element is real: nostr:note1alvygnqz3w8sg8xzhcr8s0qgkxf2wr3nj6f7xf5kvs7vs8h0nrgsldmp3w

My missus had a lot of familial pressure, constant nagging by aunties and grannies and in-laws. From what I know her friends lacked that and got their behaviour reinforcement more from friends than family/community.

The lack of this dynamic certainly appears to be a major contributing factor.

Precisely. And I’ll add that peer pressure can be positive as well like the church ladies or your elder female relatives saying maybe you shouldn’t bang influencers off Instagram and find a good honest man instead