i think https://nostr-resources.com/#get-started might be the best one i've seen.
i was skeptical about guides all seeming to recommend snort/iris, in my experience it barely works, but just had a look now and it seems to be fine:)
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Maybe ditto could be thrown into guides when it's been tried and tested a bit more. That seems like a good client to throw at a noob
Also having more a look through, guides may need updating, this one still lists nostrgram, which now defunct. Not sure who to tag to edit this page tho 🤔
💯 i believe nostr resources is gigi's ... if i remember correctly, he was looking for someone to maintain it many months ago. Not sure what happened with that or if I'm even remembering things correctly 😅
Things change so quickly here, I can imagine it's a bit of a pain. It could at least link to a maintained site like nostrapps.com with the 'many other clients' link