My ideal is 3-4 times a week and I’ve been told that’s a lot.
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Dunno what it's like after 10 years of marriage, probably have to do a lot of unsexy things all the time and just kills the mood
You gotta make time for being and feeling sexy.
my sex drive as a male peaked when i was 15 or so and every decade it gets halved or so ...
i already stopped dating women a decade ago ( in my early 30s ) as i was enjoying it less and less and they were demanding more and more ( house, status etc. ) ...
still jerk off to porn though. in fact i'm watching Hentai right now.