Right.

I think people are going to be wondering what relays are and what the implications of choosing a relay over another. Will this affect my experience here? Can I change later? What's the right choice? All of this is friction.

Either that for have a 'Randomly pick for me.' Button. From a UX perspective it's too much for many normies. I already hear it from people who have tried nostr and left.

Look, its just my 2 sats from a slightly more technical normie wanting to help.