Try to explore Peergos.net for now, it has the e2ee but not the sovereign identity yet, and it is written in Java and quite old, and never accepted VC money, so cut it some slack.
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> never accepted VC money, so cut it some slack
Yea I can appreciate this.
I've been working in the general "p2p personal server" space for about 4 years now but have somehow not come across Peergos yet. Thanks.
The ones I'm most familiar with are