2 primers for the solution:

Both little outdated by now. But I believe that you got to study the search/feed interface evolution to be able to design the winning prototype. We won't just stumble upon it.
I might re-scan these two and write up something in respect to Nostr social feeds.
The biggest blind spot I'm seeing for now is in the belief that user controls will solve everything. Because more often than not, user's actually don't know what they want.