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would you tell me more about us being the sum of the actions?

blaming others is always an illusion, but I do that sometimes. when I see what I'm doing I can be responsible for what I'm feeling and see my projections.

and about being smart: when I'm talking about things I live and are important to me I usually don't try to win or to be the smartest person, but I see a lot of competition in me when I'm supressing myself somehow.
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Sacred Peak 1y ago

and if someone walks up and punches you who's fault? and if someone breaks into your house who"s fault. so blame sometimes isn't an illusion. I think you didn't mean this as written. absolutes... tread carefully.

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pollyanna 1y ago

oh, the punch or breaking into my house is certainly their responsibility, no excuses or justification can take that away.

what is blame to you? maybe what you call blame I'm calling responsibility.

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Sacred Peak 1y ago

There's no "to me", it's a word about someone being at fault.

Dictionary:

transitive verb To consider responsible for a misdeed, failure, or undesirable outcome.

transitive verb To find fault with; criticize.

transitive verb To place responsibility for (something).

noun The state of being responsible for a fault or error; culpability.

noun Censure; condemnation.

idiom (to blame) Deserving censure or disapproval; at fault.

idiom (to blame) Being the cause or source of something.

Are you talking about not criticizing others?

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