I see it as, "Use the right tool for the job". If you can use bitcoin effectively as p2p money, good for you. If you need privacy and don't have the time to setup and learn lightning, maybe use monero.
Its great to have options. We also have things like trocador that will swap other's coins into your coin of choice.
We shouldn't be fighting each other over which coin is "the best", we should focus on fighting against the state, by simply using these coins in p2p fashion.