also should point out that it's lucky that i actually DID make a backup of my .bitcoin directory to an ext4 filesystem because there literally is no recovery methods for this
there is a tool that can search for bitcoin wallet.dat files, and i used it, and it found many possible candidates but the tool doesn't actually write the blocks anywhere that it finds the data on, idk even what this thing is fore tbh
but testdisk is finding filesystem header data all over this other disk that i'm pretty sure is where i just made a backup today, which should have the latest wallet.dat file and once i find that file and recover it, my ass is saved
but until then, i am in the waiting room for hell because if i've lost this wallet my life is rather difficult right now