I get the concern but I have no answer to it, other than being you is ultimately a thing only you can do. Regardless of the environment. It might be hard to boil yourself down to your own essence, but writing is a good path towards that.
For 1) i recommend yakihonne's webapp: https://yakihonne.com/
It published to nostra which should also fulfill 2) although, speaking for myself (a fan) I doubt I'll be very annoyed.
You could then host your blog on your website by uploading a single HTML file to your webserver, leveraging https://oracolo.me/
Hope it helps!
oracolo on codeberg pages sounds like an idea
also i love how theres a lot of variety among timeline-shaped nostr clients! let's see
this from a person who completely forgot ditto.pub was what this thing is and after signing up for flotilla managed to forget having signed up for flotilla. jogs the pattern recognition device for sure
(as to the concern of being me i have recently taken to meowing at people's dogs with great success, it's the perfect non-semantic social interaction)
(this meant less than facetiously; i actually think an ephemeral ad-hoc identity that basically depends on which browser caches i've flushed when, is a very appropriate kind of sovereign identity for the kind of mode of being that i experience)
Hey, yeah well... It sounds like you maybe get it, but indeed, you can use the same account for all the things here!
