children are expensive and a bug responsibility. but it seems to me that white people (especially men) especially are overly fearful about it to an oppressive extent.
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*big, not bug
but interestingly, my husband was afraid of having children, but he was absolutely thrilled when he became a father. he kept saying why didn’t we do this 10 years ago? I was surprised at how hard it was and wondered why I looked forward to being a mom so much. 🤣🤣🤣