Gosh ok. Thank you! 😂 This is more complicated than I had realized. But I am glad I am learning. I think I am gonna pick this up tomorrow and make determinations... I was kinda not wanting to download more apps and more wallets and hoped something I already have will work. Which I guess Zeus and muun do work for my purpose to get my zaps off alby and then can go from there with wherever I want them next.
Discussion
To make it simple...
Pick an on-chain wallet. Nunchuk is great, but is more complex. Blue Wallet is also great, but it's a little more user-friendly. Choose one.
Forget about Minibits. It's a great wallet, but it doesn't support on-chain transfers, which you want. Go with LifPay. It's compatible with Nostr, it provides you a lightning address, and it supports on-chain transfers.
Everything else can be put aside for another day.