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Real question, how have y'all on #nostr dealt with toxic people in your life? #asknostr

It's been on my mind lately because I have cut several people out of my life and am in the process of pulling back from a couple right now. The weird thing for me is that in the process of determining whether someone is toxic, I'll end up contemplating whether I'm actually the one at fault. I was wondering if other people have had the same experience.

Entropy 2y ago

I think one of the best things about being an adult is the power to choose who you associate with. I have not been shy about cutting people out of my life and have done so on multiple occasions.

It's good to stop and reflect though, you never know when you might be a contributing factor. My only rule of thumb is that once I cut ties there's no looking back, so I tend to wait until I'm overwhelmingly sure.

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[ARCHIVED] Jay 2y ago

Thank you 🙏

I also don't want to burn a bridge until I know for sure that it must be done. I take these things pretty slowly, but cutting them out is on the horizon. At least just limiting the amount I see them to start.