nostr:npub1xnf02f60r9v0e5kty33a404dm79zr7z2eepyrk5gsq3m7pwvsz2sazlpr5 is a good one. Easy to start up and when you she is ready it will plug into her own node.

Strike works

Just starting out and want something quick and easy to set up with Nostr Wallet Connect and a lightning address? nostr:nprofile1qyt8wumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnrda5kummn9e5k7tcqyzagpxgxvmhskm6t55zex3a7kyey9ys723nfu6qqvn9825jk5836v8xsdxk every time.

I did alby and have stayed with them. Now you need to pay for alby hub to be sell custodial.... but one account and you then can create family sub accounts each with their own lighting wallet.

YakiHonne and Primal both are clients with built in wallets

Easiest by far to get started with is nostr:npub1h2qfjpnxau9k7ja9qkf50043xfpfy8j5v60xsqryef64y44puwnq28w8ch . It's custodial but it's dead simple compared to some other options mentioned.

Want self custody? Use Zeus. Requires scanning a QR code to send zaps.

Want to run your own node? Use alby/umbrel/something similar.