I use LNbits with LNDHub. It's essentially an accounting system for my node. All sats are still "mine" on my node and not separate. But on the LNBits side, I see all wallets and all separate balances. Each wallet or user can only spend from their own wallet. This allows me to handle the technical side of things for them. I'm their custodian. And, I'm not going to rug my kids or nieces.

I'm essentially rinning my own GetAlby for my family.