I do wonder what I would suggest someone completely new who just wants to set up on nostr quickly and get on with it. (Maybe they can look into more advanced options later). It's just a lot to do lol. Especially if they're coming from a non-bitcoin background.

I think muun works as a zap address? (They don't do lnurl). It's non-custodial, doesn't require any starting fees (important if onboarding someone on zero). I think people poopooed it a while ago for not being 'true' lightning or something. But I think it might be a good solution. Either that or primal.