I don't get that from it and most of the XMR people I've interacted with, while limited, has always been pleasant. Pretty much everyone I've interacted with on nostr even when disagreement happens is the same though. So, not sure how good of a comparison that is lol.

I can see a dual use case though. The answer lies in the middle. I'm willing to set up a monero wallet so someone can zap me with it. I don't mind. I'll keep buying BTC though. It will take a solid hook to break me from that