Yes, I understand. That is a fat lie.

I would say that, compatible couples are the ones, similar or not, that choose to stay no matter what, are willing to have the tough conversations and work on an argument or differences not to win, but for the sake of both well being.

No one is perfect, and if we just bond because of "we agree on many things", soon the connection will fizzle I would say. I get along with people with same values, loyalty being the most important. We can be very different but if I know you have my back, same as I, that's what counts.