Then go get her
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Iāve read six books, seen two therapists, and flew to Peru for ayahuasca trying to get over it, and the feeling lingersā¦
But the courage to have difficult conversation needs to come from her.
Iāve been readyā¦ She is dismissive avoidant, and has never faced any challenge, she runs from itā¦
Do not listen to the woman telling you to go get the previous woman.
Women do not understand the challenges of men in the modern world and vice versa. You donāt know what itās like to be drowned in dickpics and she has no idea what itās like to chase a woman in a world of online dating.
Going backwards doesnāt work. Go forwards. Adjust your mindset; embrace being the one adored.
Whatever you do; donāt take relationship advice as a man from a woman.
I understand thisā¦ fully.
Doesnāt make it easier š
Iām tryingā¦
Nothing makes anything easier and Iām not here to stroke your ego.
I will however warn you, man to man, from doing something as retarded as taking relationship advice from a woman. DO NOT DO THIS.
Go forward.
See what itās like to be adored, maybe you thrive and itās great but maybe you donāt and itās horrible. Find out.
Just donāt go backwards.
Donāt take advice from *anyone*
Follow your heart. Trust your gut.
Sad the other dude is demonizing taking advice *from a woman* š¤·š¼āāļø
No one was there but you. Only YOU know your truth and whatās best for you. Trust yourself.
Whatās right for the logical side is not always what the heart wants.
Wish both sides could align š